romantics ❣️ deep + thoughtful thinkers, those who crave a life of sensuality and presence, those who love to savor everything and take things slow, who understand the art of flirtation means that building heat & tension starts through conversation, that intimacy is built in the quiet and small moments, that a moment of eye contact or inside joke shared in public can melt you (complimentary), that the journey is in fact the destination (that foreplay is everything). Those who want to feel more, connect more deeply, get lost in the moment, come alive 💘

I’m particularly invested in long-term connections, where we can really let the story unfold and build intimacy over time. If you view intimacy thru the lens of timestamps or a rushed mechanical checklist, I can guarantee we won’t be a good fit.

But if you crave presence, delight, tenderness, and adventure, believe that laughing and spending time together in beautiful spaces is an essential form of flirtation, love swapping playlists and being a positive influence on each other…we will be cute together :)

Even if our connection is relatively brief (and trust me, that can be fun!!), I find that the most memorable and cathartic connections start with a mindset of presence, savoring the moment, & slowing down. 

Good question 👼🏼

If your inquiry includes questions about what our time together “includes”, we won’t be a good fit.

If your understanding of connection + intimacy is to dissociate and project an idea of intimacy onto the other person, we won’t be a good fit.

If you view intimacy thru the lens of checklists and timestamps, we definitely won’t be a good fit.

If you struggle to listen and respect boundaries, (or view them as inconveniences rather than helpful directions) we definitely won’t be a good fit.

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Absolutely! :) I am always honored to see you for your first experience with a companion, first time exploring queerness or in general. The space we create together is a space for connection + exploration + fun. Truly a no-pressure, judgment-free zone <3

My email inbox/booking form is open 24/7, and I typically reply to legitimate inquiries within 24 hours (unless I’ve advertised that I’m away.)

You should reach out when you:

*Have fully familiarized yourself with my booking process

*Have your available dates ready as well as back-up dates

*Have your deposit ready to send

I recommend at least 1 week out, and 2-3 weeks out is the best!

I’m occasionally available for day-of inquiries (more likely for outcall than incall), typically accompanied by a day-of fee.

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Unless I’ve advertised that I’m away, I am typically really prompt with my replies (>24-48 hours) to inquiries that include full screening/booking requirements.

The booking process should take no more than 3 emails total to complete.

To honor both of our busy schedules, please be ready to confirm details & send deposit within 1-12 hours after you’ve received deposit instructions.

I unfortunately can’t hold an appointment time without a deposit, and the appointment may no longer be available/hotel prices change etc., so always best to move with intention <3

For serious booking inquiries (ie you’ve shared all your screening and reached out in a respectful tone) - I am typically very prompt (within 12 hours, and often as quickly as within a few hours).

For time sensitive communication, I am also typically very prompt. If you ever need to make a reservation and need feedback from me to do so, please give me a heads up so I can be extra attentive to your timeline.

For non-booking emails (thank you notes, non-urgent questions), I tend to take days or sometimes 1-3 weeks to reply.

If we establish an email arrangement between bookings, we can discuss timeline expectations so you know what to expect with our communication.

Clarity is key! :) <3

For deposits - I do on a case by case basis

For gifts - Absolutely.

For the full balance - Please ask in advance. I offer this on a case by case basis.

For a guide on how to use crypto and Zcash specifically, please see the following educational guides by my colleague Violet:

1) https://violetrollergirl.com/resources/for-clients/using-cryptocurrency/paying-your-provider/

2) https://violetrollergirl.com/resources/for-clients/discretion-maxxing/#use-shielded-zcash-to-pay-your-deposit

I do not.

I offer many discreet gifting/payment options, which you are welcome to ask about!

Outcalls to 4+ star hotels are always preferred by me (over incalls) 💘

Incall = You visit me

Outcall = I visit you

If you’d prefer for me to make the arrangements, please be ready to add a space fee (typically 300-500) to your deposit (I’ll send you instructions during the booking process).

I completely understand privacy concerns leading you to select incall. If you do have the ability to arrange the space yourself, this is always appreciated & strongly preferred!

I’m happy to receive thoughtful TMTY and FMTY requests. Let’s make your city feel new again :)

My Northeast TMTY minimum is 6 hours. To keep things simple, I charge a 1,000 flat travel fee to cover train, hotel, and lyft transportation during my travel. I’ll handle the logistics

TMTY + FMTY bookings require a $200 good faith deposit to begin logistical planning (to be applied towards the booking balance) and a 50% deposit (covering the total booking cost) as well as travel rate to confirm booking.

I see clients ages 21+

I have no upper age limit, and love connecting with older clients! :) People only become more fascinating and hot with time ☺️

If you have loose requests (like wear blue + orange because we’re going to the Mets/Knicks game), that is welcome!

If you see something on my wishlist that has your attention, or have a specific request (“please wear a little black dress to the symphony”, for ex) you’re welcome to send a wishlist gift a few weeks before we meet and then experience it together irl :)

When we’re in person together, I’d love to hear about your dreams & fantasies and see where we resonate for the future.

Our first time meeting will be a space to get to know each others’ energy and start building a foundation for a shared language around consent, boundaries and all the communication and respect that makes exploration fun and exciting.

My approach to companionship is about connecting deeply, building intimacy, playfulness, and sensuality. If you are looking for a more menu-style approach or have a checklist, we won’t be a good fit. If you’re looking to connect deeply, be affectionate and laugh a lot, we'll get along great :)

We can! After screening is complete, I’m happy to schedule a 20 minute phone call (~100) to hear each others’ voices and break the ice. Please note, this is a PG-rated phone call

As adorable & precious as I look on camera… I don’t Facetime or video call with clients for reasons related to digital privacy & security as a face-in provider. Thank you for your respect & understanding!

If you’d like to schedule an (audio) phone call to break the ice, I’m happy to arrange that! See the dropdown pertaining to phone calls

Ah you noticed! 😉

My email communication style leans towards formal, and this is intentional.

I have a very multifaceted life juggling school, work, and beyond, and this has taught me to be super organized, clear and concise with my email communication so I can keep track of important logistics (aka our time together!)

This does not mean I don’t like you! I just reserve my natural warmth and playfulness for when we get together in person.

As the courtesan saying goes ~

My vibe over email: 👩‍⚖️📅

My vibe irl: 🥰💘

Happily! I’ll ask you both to fill out the booking form and screen separately.

2 hour minimum

Add 500/hour

On a case-by-case basis, yes! I am bisexual and love spending time with couples and friends.

With that said, in the realm of companionship, I find that my favorite connections are 1on1 or being invited into an established relationship💘

For bookings up to/including 2 hours, yes! I’m happy to meet you first for a drink or spend the whole time creating a quiet escape from the city

For bookings 3 hours and longer, part of that time should either start or finish outside of the room (meeting at a bar/restaurant for a snack/drink, walking thru a museum for an hour, or flipping that order :)) Dates 4 hours and longer should include an activity (museum, show, finding a spot to flirt with good food + views :))

If discretion is important to you and you prefer not to be seen in public, I completely understand! Please let me know in your booking form, and we can discuss something that works.

I have a stay-in fee for bookings 3 hours and longer.

If it’s our first time meeting, I’m happy to meet you at an upscale hotel of your choosing. I don’t visit private residences on our first meeting as a personal safety precaution, but if you’d prefer not to make hotel arrangements I’m happy to handle the logistics on our first meeting

Once we’ve met once and you’ve shown me how wonderful you are, I am happy to meet you at your place at my discretion

I mostly eat a pescatarian diet and occasionally eat chicken. I don’t eat beef, pork, duck, or lamb.

I am tragically allergic to dairy - butter is usually okay but heavy cream, milk, and cheese are sadly out. But yes you can take me out for vegan soft serve!!

For overnights I require 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep, and we should expect to plan dinner and breakfast within our time. I’m very cuddly and affectionate, but am a delicate sleeper and require my own separate bedroom in order to be my bright + attentive self. The next morning, I’ll return to you for breakfast in bed to start the day correctly :)

Good question!

My tips for how to not fumble your booking form intro ~

*First make sure you’ve properly submitted your screening. Nothing hotter than a respectful inquiry with all the screening shared right away

*For your booking form intro message, I recommend erring on the side of a little formal - Imagine you’re reaching out your barber or denist’s office (truly!) We’ll have plenty of time to make it personal + informal irl :)

*You can tell me a bit about your job, some hobbies you’re passionate about. You’re welcome to mention a book or artist you love right now - Basically brief, normal “getting to know you” type stuff to give me a sense of your personality and some of the 1st topics we might chat about in person

*Let me know a bit about what drew you to me & what resonated for you

*If it’s your first time seeing a companion, you’re welcome to mention that!

*If you’re visiting the city, you can share where you’re staying or anything else you want to share about what brings you to NYC

*If you’re proposing a date longer than 2 hours, let me know what you had in mind for our time out and about together - If there’s a museum exhibit you’ve been excited to see, an ice cream spot you want to visit together etc. It’s always attractive and helpful to read an inquiry when someone has really thought out a thoughtful plan for the time. I love a strong vision :)

*Please avoid chatgpt, copy/paste messages, overly casual or explicit language

*The whole message can be around 5-10 sentences - You’re giving me a small taste of your vibe, and I’ll look forward to getting to know more in person! :)

*Aim for this tone: Warm, respectful, enthusiastic but not presumptuous.

I can’t seriously discuss my availability with you if I don’t know who Im speaking with 😆

Not only is it a safety/security issue, but it’s also a waste of both of our time since you will still have to screen, and only at that point will I be able to determine whether or not we can meet.

It’s sort of like sending an anonymous email to a lawyer that says “I’d be interested in you representing me”. How will the lawyer make a decision about whether they can take on your case, if they have none of the necessary info?

Emails like this are typically ignored. If I do reply, you still will have to redeem yourself from the negative first impression.

It is always going to create a better impression if you send your inquiry with all of your screening included. Even if we can’t meet on the particular date you wanted, we’ll have the opportunity to simplify the booking process next time.

Remember, screening is about safety. Demonstrating you care about my safety is a basic foundation of our connection. The more you demonstrate this genuinely, the more interested I will be in seeing you.

Maybeeeee :)

I prioritize time that is scheduled a week+ in advance. You can ask about short notice appointments - I rarely have day-of availability (especially for incalls) but it does occasionally happen. If you’re reaching out about a day-of or next-day inquiry, it’s always respectful to mention that in your inquiry (“I know this is extremely last minute and completely understand if you’re not available on such short notice/am more than happy to pay any additional last minute rates that may apply”)

Given my intense school/class schedule, I recommend reaching out to schedule 2 weeks in advance for a higher scheduling success rate.

Plus, scheduling in advance is a surefire way to make a great first impression with me 😘

[Please note that an additional day-of fee will be added.]

Fortunately for us both, yes I very much am :)

If you’d like more proof of my existence, you can read my TY notes page, my ongoing Ask Me Anything, or my 3,000+ posts on Bluesky (where you can also see me interact with colleagues.)

(click on any of those options to be linked to the pages mentioned)

As a client once told me (after viewing my Bluesky and determining that I am real), “an AI could never be this esoteric” 😂💌